Get me pregnant....
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Get me pregnant....
On our first wedding anniversary we decided it is time that we try for a baby... And being under impression of our hindi movies and tv serials I was expecting to expect soon, BUT life isn't a hindi movie or a hindi tv serial. So one month, two months, three months so on and so forth, after half a year of unsuccessful tries I was heart broken by the fact that I am unable to conceive and I called my elder cousin and she laughed on my use of unable to conceive and she told me that I should not press my panic button so soon when I asked her contact details of any good doc she knows... Nevertheless I ignored what she said and decided to go ahead with visiting a doc... Generally when times are tough it is equally tougher to believe in what people say to console you.... So I told my hubby that its time now that we go to a doc and so we did and the doc we went to gave a big list of tests to be done and I swear it scared me to hell and I felt like a patient... I told my hubby that we should try for a couple of months again and then think of these tests, i knew my hubby could not make sense out of what I was saying as he didn't understand then, that why I want to see a doc (he also said that it's too early to go to a doc) and he didn't understand now, why I don't want to follow the procedure as told by the doc... But thankfully being supportive he decided to stay mum and let me decide how I wanted... So for next couple of months we again kept on trying with no success in our hands it was only around our second anniversary that I decided to get all the tests done... All the test reports came out to be fine and we went to the doc but I somehow didn't like doc's attitude so we went to another doc... To my luck this doc that we now went to is a very charming, soft spoken and easy to go... She didn't recommend me any test nor was she much interested in the tests I had already gone through... Rather she spoke to me about how much I know about how to try for a baby and that was the first time that I got to know that trying for a baby on some particular days can increase our probability of getting pregnant.... I felt so stupid that I have wasted a year on trying randomly with a hit and trial method when there is a better way of it... She told me about one of the websites where in I can check information regarding how to conceive, I so much wished that someone would have told me all this earlier.... Nevertheless with a positive state of mind we again started trying and in a couple of months I conceived and later gave birth to a beautiful baby girl... 

Now that my daughter is about to turn 2years on 21st of this month I look back on time and realise how desperate I was when I was unable to conceive... Not desperate for a baby but to get pregnant as if that was my task in hand and I wanted to achieve my target... In my desperation I have been so frustrated with myself, have fought with my hubby without any fault of his, let my work suffer and what not...

To all those ladies who are sailing on the same boat, I just have one thing to say what I have realised is that a child is the best gift GOD can ever give us and that is why God gives it to us when we best deserve it... I thank God and I thank time for giving this gift to me at a right time because I know had I got it an year earlier I won't have been so mentally prepared for it....

Like they say "Jo hota hai achhe ke kiye hee hota hai."

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