Is comparison part of everyone life?
Is that required to be part of life?
Is that for good or bad?
-> Daugther in law:
A girl with lots of hope,entered into new house and made a morning coffee and served it to husband,MIL,FIL and everyone in the family .
FIL responded that my wife would make a better coffee than this.
If wife finds economical discomfort at home,then wife will start comparing her husband to her brother,father ,neighbour.
If a student in a family got an average marks ,then parents will start comparing with neighbours about the marks.
If infant didn't sit/crawl /walk as per age standards,then parents will start comparing with the other infants who already started walking/crawling.
Annual performance will be compared among employees and sometimes people will be humiliated.
I dont feel comparison should be part of our lives.Either for students /employees ,who ever it may be.
High levels of comparisons will lead to aversion towards the person who is comparing /compared to .
It also effect our mental strength /confidence levels.
Children will have a high impact on their attitude and behaviour if we choose comparison as a tool for success.
How two people will have same attitude/life style/IQ and tastes.
We dont even share same IQ/tastes/life style with our siblings or parents.How can it be possible with others?
PS: I dont think there is something like "GOOD COMPARISON".
Comparison will become good if YOU compare with YOURSELF.
Hoping for a change in at least one person after reading this.
Thank you :)