Kids are small growing plantlets whose blossom depends on our nature of nurturing them in the way or other. A correct ingredient , love, with the pinch of leathery scold is always a delicacy they need to be fed up with in order to equip them with the healthy nutrition for their coming lives.
Observing the kids around me , I tried to find out the basic knick knacks we often do unknowingly, that are spoiling the kiddos in terms of Behaviour and Integrity. I have been able to list down few of them , possibly relating to most of mothers and kids around.
Never place your child’s need or demands over other family members ,not even if it is your spouse. Avoid running to him or her frequently on insignificant calls.
Never curb your child with Brand names or specific shops to buy their clothes or any other accessories. Show them that outward appearance is least mattered of all.
Don’t prepare your Menu as per your child’s desires. Inspite give him/her what everyone else is eating no matter he eats or not. It will make him more adaptable to the family and food.
Don’t side your child when he fights with his school fellows or neighbour kids. Don’t run fighting with them as your child came weeping in front of you. Inspite , make them realise Bulleying and fighting are part and parcel of life, “Shake Hand” is only solution.
When your child has disagreement with teacher never ever favour him; not at least in front of him. Openly discuss about his actual problems to the teacher without worrying about his hurt feelings.
Discipline your child when he/she acts up. Though everyone has their own way to express his feelings , emphasise on to be natural and innocent.
Sign up your child for extra -curricular activities but not on the cost of your regular schedules and To- Dos. Let him learn that everyone’s schedule is as equal as other family member’s.
Don’t Entertain your child the whole day. Try avoiding putting your tasks secondary in order to fulfill his first. Let him do something without you.·
Above parenting hacks may seem to be a bit sinwy but believe me It would be like that Ayurvedic Immunity building syrup that would resist your child from being a psychologically and mentally weak Brat and develop into strong , self dependent,voracious and disciplined Being.