Are we Ruining our Kids?
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|   Apr 11, 2017
Are we Ruining our Kids?

Kids are small growing plantlets whose blossom depends on our nature of nurturing them in the way or other. A correct ingredient , love, with the pinch of leathery scold is always a delicacy they need to be fed up with in order to equip them with the healthy nutrition for their coming lives.

Observing  the  kids around  me , I tried to find out the basic knick knacks we often do unknowingly, that are spoiling the kiddos in terms of Behaviour and Integrity. I have been able to list down few of them  , possibly relating to most of mothers and kids around.

  • Never place your child’s need or demands over other  family members ,not even if it is your spouse. Avoid running to him or her   frequently on insignificant calls.
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  • Never   curb your  child with Brand names or specific  shops to buy their clothes or any other  accessories. Show them that outward appearance is least mattered   of all.
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  • Don’t   prepare your   Menu  as per your child’s desires.  Inspite   give him/her what everyone else is eating no matter   he eats or not. It will make him more adaptable to the family and food.
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  • Don’t side your child when he fights with his school fellows or neighbour  kids. Don’t run fighting with them as your child came weeping in front of you. Inspite , make them realise Bulleying and  fighting are part and parcel of life, “Shake Hand” is only solution.
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  • When your child has disagreement with teacher never ever  favour him; not  at least  in front of him. Openly discuss about his actual problems to the teacher   without worrying about his hurt feelings.
  • Discipline your child when he/she acts up. Though everyone has their  own way to express his  feelings , emphasise on to be natural  and innocent.
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  • Sign up your child for extra -curricular activities but not on the cost of your regular schedules  and  To- Dos. Let him learn that everyone’s   schedule is as equal as other family member’s. 
  • Don’t  Entertain your child the whole day. Try avoiding putting your tasks secondary in order to fulfill his first. Let him do something without you.·
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     Above parenting hacks may seem to be a bit sinwy but believe me It would be like that Ayurvedic Immunity building syrup that would resist your child from being a psychologically and mentally weak Brat and develop into strong , self dependent,voracious and disciplined Being.

                                                   Happy Parenting!!!

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