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TIPS FOR COUPLES – To keep the spark alive.
# Begin and end each day with a kiss – who doesn’t like to be loved.
# Don’t shy away from saying the three golden words – I love you! It comes handy in all difficult situations, and we all love to hear it a million times.
# Be liberal in your praises – it costs nothing!
# Always steal an opportunity to flirt with your spouse – it works like magic.
# Pleasant surprises are always welcome – flowers, chocolates and perfumes can do the trick. At times, diamonds will also do.
# Make your spouse feel special by cooking his/her special dish. If you can’t cook order the dish.
#Once in a while take the trouble of planning out outings, candle light dinners etc. And cherish these memories.
# Play some good music in your bedroom at the end of each day. You may dance to it at times. You don’t always need a dance floor to dance.
# Make time for each other. Let your spouse be your priority.
# Relive good old memories.
# Text some naughty messages to your spouse. It’s a good way of using WhatsApp!
# Variety is the spice of life. So to avoid boredom setting in; try something different – maybe a different time, music, place, positions, styles ...Of course with your spouse only!!
# Go on a honeymoon at least once in a year or two, leaving your kids behind, grandparents too need quality time with kids! And honeymooning is not a prerogative of the newlyweds!
To conclude, most of us are aware of these points, it’s only a matter of putting it into practice.
As I write this, the lyrics of Billy Joel’s composition, “Just the way you are “ keeps ringing in my ears – so I thought of sharing it. Learn the lyrics and listen to it... you’ll love it.
Just The Way You Are
Don't go changing
to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore
I would not leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times; I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are
Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care
I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are
I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you?
I said I love you and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are
Practice what you have read and add spark in your lives.
Please share your experiences in the comments column.