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We are living in a evolved communication world, where people can choose to be connected or not through many means. FB....Whatsapp.....Hangout........skype.....n many more.
But still when it comes to matter of heart...nothing comes handy. One of my friend who is still very much testing the waters and manage to stay alone for all these years .....Asked me
"What exactly woman wants? How to show what I feel?"
I had a hearty laughter.....Even Krishna doesn't know this.
On a serious note ....What do we want?
The answer was echoing....HAPPINESS......!!!
Yes A way to a woman's heart is to make her feel happy......about her life...her choices....and above all about herself !
Money is important for all..... but she is equally happy if you give her your time.
Success is very important....we strive for it.....but she feel ecstatic when you ask “How was your day”?
House is a dream...for all of us.......but a rented apartment which she calls home is her world as she share it with you n your love!
Career is important.....she also worked hard for it.......but she is more than happy in your growth....both personally and professionally!
Holidays...? Who doesn't love them.....but she may prefer to cook with you on Sunday's...or just sit together and read your own stuff or may be just having coffee together...no words required...believe me!!
Diamonds?? Lucrative .....but her eyes sparkle more than diamonds when you bring a Rs 10 rose....without occasion...No B'day...No woman's day....Just to say thank you !!
The summary is she doesn't need all these but she needs Respect...Care .... Freedom to be what she is and loads of love!!!
You may not like every thing which woman does or for that matter you may not like a woman as an individual but than also she deserve respect for the sake of human relation.
She is not weak....she can take care of herself but your words of care will give her a feel of being important in your life! Make your presence felt when she is least expecting.
She is a nurturer…she has the power of bringing a life into this world , she can take care of her life , but she expects you to be there , when she look at her side..She expects embrace not shackles!!
She is born with a unique mind as all of us ....allow her to make decisions...make mistakes and learn...just be there at backstage for your entry ...if a Knight in shining Armor is required at all !!
And lastly loads of love..??? Not required ,… as it is what you do shows your love....we love actions :) instead of plain empty words !
So all those people still wondering what exactly we want.....here is the answer....Give woman Respect..care...freedom and embrace her wonderful personality as it is....believe me she is giver of manifolds.....She is no puzzle..don't try to solve
Hawa hoon gahta hoon Samndar hoon main
Jakadne ki mujhko tu koshish naa kar
bas ik ishq ki zanzeer kaamaato yahan
Bewajah taaqat ki aazmaish naa kar!!!