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Vidaai is considered as the most emotional moment, in a girl’s life. Leaving your home and family is not an easy thing to do. Amidst all the celebrations and ceremonies, somewhere in our hearts the feeling of parting away from our families keep building up. But the day of wedding is as such where one experiences mixed feelings of excitement, nervousness, anxiety, happiness, joy and sorrow at the same time. When the time of Vidaai , we are striked by the reality and all emotions that have build up come out in form of tears.
But what I personally feel is that Vidaai is just the beginning of the emotional moments that are going to unfold. The real feelings kicks off after the marriage ceremonies are over. I was the real happy bride at my weddings, posing smiles all the way and even smiling all the while during the Vidaai. Maybe, staying in hostels and away from the family all teenage years has not made me realise the fact at that moment. Though the realization of leaving everything behind for a new life stuck to me a little late, but stuck quite hard. There are certain moments in your married life when you start missing your family and home more than ever. No matter how happy you are in your new family, but the nostalgia can take a grip over you at any time.
These are certain moments that during the initial years of marriage, that make you feel like your life has changed and not just changed but turned over.
These are just a few to name but every day brings a new challenge . A new day , a new challenge . Life keeps juggling between work , home and society keeps adding more and more burden to it The “Log Kya Bolenge” will never let you live peacefully.The umbilical cord may have been cut at the time of birth but it is invisibly there and will always be there.No matter what age we attain, we have our family , kids we will always miss our home there will be no place better than it. Women are surely born with brave hearts , it is not easy to leave everything behind , something that you have been living all your life and accept new and change your life forever . Though we may not realize it everyday , but when we look back at our lives nothing is same and with time we all have embraced these changes with a smile on our faces. It started with Vidaai and will stay always with us. Something that will never change