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If you think you are parenting positively , are empathetic to your child’s needs and can see that the crying in your child is definitely not a sign of weakness but a positive manifestation of his/ her true self , this article is for you! Even if you choose to believe otherwise , please go ahead ..You may end up getting a few reasons to change the way you do.
With ample information and expert inputs floating all around you on parenting and bringing up kids , I intend not to add to further information overload and to touch upon briefly only selective areas of every parents concern. I write this on a premise that we all want to have a better grip on our children’s emotional outbursts like frustration , anger , jealousy etc when it comes to setting firm limits and that too without power struggle; My list of issues addressed here are:
I suggest here some very worth-a-try techniques that will recreate and re-enerzise your parenting blueprint hence forth.
It’s important to understand that Positive Parenting is the most impassive parenting to employ here and not just a one time mantra.
THE TECHNIQUE WOULD GO AS :
THE TECHNIQUE NOW WOULD BE AS :
FOCUS ON CONNECTION NOW- “Do you want to sit down with me and talk before you find something else to do.”
This is very empowering because no-where you are underestimating the child’s own power of choosing and taking a call.
3.CRYING IN KIDS IS NOT MANIPULATIVE AT ALL. IT IS NOT A SIGN OF OVER-SENSITIVE OR WEAK KIDS AT ALL. –You should see it as a positive sign as it indicates the child is comfortable enough to show his/ her true self around you. The technique here is the simplest:
4.UNDERSTAND THAT POWER STRUGGLES ARE TRULY DAMAGING AND TO KEEP IT IN CHECK JUST A FEW LITTLE THINGS WOULD BE WORTH A TRY. These include:
In case of Intense, negative emotion outbursts- Anger will always be retaliated by Anger , so stay calm and express your frustration in a wisely chosen manner.
While the simple steps outlined above could be your saving grace on power struggles between you and your children, It’s also a sure shot way to boost their tolerance of frustration and many more negative emotions and their abilities to cope in the long run!
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