Things that drastically change after the baby enters our life...
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Things that drastically change after the baby enters our life...

In older days there was no planning... you get married you get pregnant... 3... 4...the number goes on and on 12 also...

I still wonder how they used to manage... in this generation managing one kid is a big work... really dont know how our grand parents managed 12 kids...

Before baby and after baby... well so many things change... 

THE UNPLANNED TRIPS:

Before baby: Wow... I can't imagine the trips we used to go... every trip was unplanned... we just used to plan and pack our bags and rush in the car... we used to eat whatever we want... on roads/dhabas and all...stay where ever possible...reach destination and enjoy...

After baby:  Going for shopping itself I have to carry a bag... which has diapers/dry sheet/wet wipes/extra clothes/napkins/cap..

So much stuff.. if your baby started weaning... then better stop thinking about trips... the baby needs well mashed food... and no hotel or dhaba can do it...so we better prefer to stay at home...

MOVIES:

Before baby: My husband is a big movie freak... we never booked tickets and went... we used to just rush take tickets and watch movie... 

After baby: My husband have been alone... its been 6 months after baby is born..dint step out to watch movie :'( and 6 months before stopped going for movies...

GROCERIES AND VEGETABLES SHOPPING:

Before baby: Since both were working.. weekends was the best time... after  1st arrived.. the first weekend was our grocery shopping day... my husband really loves to go to supermarket... so we used to enjoy a lot... similarly veggies everyweekend sufficient for the week...

After baby:  Since we cannot take the baby out... and my husband cannot shop veggies... veggies I used to handle keeping him with the baby.. abd groceries he used to get if I gave him a list... also i had dealing with a supermarket near by who can get some stuff delivered home... when my husband isnot around and when I cannot step out...

And sometimes when we are lucky... if someone come home... we both step out for these works...

RESTAURANTS:

Before baby: No plans at all... whenever no mood to cook we used to go to restuarent... No plan at all...

After baby:  We now don't even think about restuarents... if yes... in groups... where we can taje turns in handling the baby...

THE ROMANTIC TIMES:

Before baby: We used to stay alone... so we had ample of time... to spend private time... midnight icecreams were very often... cuddling time... hugs kisses... we had no limit for these...

After baby: The day 1 I came to my house... we have a king size bed... but with the baby we were very contious... by morning my husband was sleeping in other room... when I asked him what happened... he told he fell off the bed so he decided to sleep in other room...No kisses / No hugs / Nothing... actually we prefer to have rest and sleep when the baby sleeps... we don't even think about we time now...

SLEEP:

Before baby: Oh... I still love thosr days... where saturday I used to sleep till 11 AM... Those lazy weekends... wow... whenever I used to feel like sleep I used to...

After baby: The main thing that effects after the baby arrival is sleep... specially mother's... cant even sleep for 3 hrs contiously... this will continue till the baby turns 3 years old... whenever someone is available to baby sit... all I would love to do is SLEEP... :)

  • These are few main things... there will be many more... where we have to think about the baby first before us...
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