Understanding Parenting or Managing Tantrum..
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|   Sep 21, 2015
Understanding Parenting or Managing Tantrum..

Parenting or Managing Tantrum..

It’s a big question always is a mind of every parents … we always come across in some or other difficult situation where our child become unmanageable…

But the question is y???? n why u want to manage??? Is this only because someone is noticing your child’s behavior and criticizing?? Or you are fearful that something wrong will happen…

Now here my view is…

The Only and a simple statement to understand is , “There is no one in this world who have perfect Personality”… It’s just Our view point, Our Perspective, Our Experience, Our limitation and Our exposure who start judging the things in a parameter of right or wrong.. Good or Bad…

What is good/right for you may be wrong to the other person…. And forgot about others.. May be one thing you say right in a particular situation may be wrong in another situation…

Someone may say the “your child is very demanding.. And that’s wrong..” But Y??? Why it is wrong?? All successful leaders of the world are demanding.. Infact you can’t achieve success in your life if you are not demanding, crazy, passionate and Mad about something”.. so when your child do so .. why he/she is not a good Boy/ Girl??? Why when he/she is asking something..then he/she is demanding /Bad Habits. Etc...........  Now You will say he/she should know what he is demanding.. if he demand good  thing we will give… and that’s where a trap is… what is good thing??   And is it a good thing according to you or your child? I’m 100% sure that if your child is demanding something …he is thinking the only positive side of it…it is a good thing for him/her… and even if it is bad …its only a limitation of his/her exposure.. and in any situation there no fault of your child…  The only area where you suppose to work on, is the understanding / knowledge of the child…. Please don’t try to manipulate the personalities of the kids.. Because that is what his/her inborn talent is…

Every Coin has a two side…

A slow, quite child looks nice  and decent but may be he/she is a slow learner, lack of energy, not comfortable in socializing … but on positive side… they are good follower, can be good with indoor activities… creative thinker/ even good for accounts/maths….

A energetic.. Always in mood of masti child look like naughty.. Destructive.. Talkative.. but he/she may be very good with sports/ confidence/ leader/ challenger/ trying new things/ show stopper.. they are excellent is their grasping power..

And this can go on and on….

Let’s not be judgmental with our limited thought process.. Lets the child grow.. Express and let them do what they want to do… this is how we can explore their strength and their weakness.


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