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As soon as a child is born, parents start to prepare a checklist of their expectations with their child in terms of education and career. They start living their dreams in their child's eyes. We always keep on thinking what my child will become,once he or she is grown up. Education becomes our only important thing which we look forward to always. We prepare our kid in such a way that one day everyone in the society would identity him or her as ," woh Dekho Sunayana ka beta jaa Raha hey,bahut intelligent hey and aaj ek engineer hey ,Sahi hey,lucky hey Sunayana".,& We feel so happy about it. But have we ever give some time to think what my child desires for. Recently I had read an article by Mr. Aamir Khan where how nicely he had said that every child is different and special. Every child has its own capabilities and negative qualities also. We as a parent should always try to focus on his or her positive qualities, whatever it may be,to nourish him or her from within their roots,rather then making them a rewardable person to be applaused by his near and dear ones ,by the so called society. I don't say good education is not healthy for a child,but I believe education shouldn't be confined to only achieving a good career,a 9-6 job,a highly paid job. Most of us always want our child to be a doctor or an engineer or any professionally qualified person,but have we ever thought to make them a teacher who has the ability to transform a negative attitude human being to a kind hearted person. No, because as I said we always look for a profile where we are paid in good numbers. Look around yourself parents,it's time to change this attitude of ours. There are so many things to achieve in this beautiful world ,so let free your child and allow them to develop their skills,their attitude on their own. Let them.decide what is wrong and what is right for them. We can just support them ,guide them. We have to make them.understand that there is nothing called as a loser,it's just the attitude how you accept it.
Society may remind us every time saying your child is inefficient ,a loser,a bad character etc,but we as a parent,it's our duty to not our children let down and always encourage them to enjoy life at their fullest.
Even educational institutions have become like a bank where they assure the customers that they would give good returns once we deposit a high value of money , but in reality they are just doing their job to increase their market value. Merely we find any school or college which believe in transparent education. Education should be give and take and not rather you take ( in terms of money) but there is no give ( in terms of good education). That's all!