I am AWESOME without Alcohol
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|   Aug 07, 2017
I am AWESOME without Alcohol

Oh, No No.. I am not trying to campaign against Alcohol here.. I am neither promoting Alcohol free life.. I am only going to narrate my story... 

So, it goes like this.. Coming from a middle class family, having complexes about CLASS is not uncommon with many of us. On top of that the urge to be identified as a person with a modern outlook was yet another need. To have both these tasks done under the name of FEMINISM, I always thought as a teenager that we should essentially try everything and shouldn't be stereotypical. 

My dad who occasionally loves to consume alcohol with family and friends had never restricted both me or my brother to stay away from it and this was in a way boon in disguise that I didn't feel the need to drown myself into this or use it as an escape mechanism... Having felt thus, it didn't mean I never tried.. I did try most of the varieties in alcohol and most of the times did so to LOOK COOL... Well, I have to admit that I could barely enjoy the bitter taste and that heat pass through my system... I still would portray that its cool to have a glass in your hand containing liquor. 

At a stage, when there was a turning point of my life, I realised lot of things that were so ambiguous and unreal that I decided to not consume alcohol just to have a Modern Image and to stay in discomfort for creating a fake reputation in society. It wasn't tough as I was never fond of it neither was my core circle of friends indulged into alcohol as much. 

One and a half decade ago, it was still stigmatic if females would enjoy drinking.. Our male dominated society was open to Men drinking but not women.. In that era too, I neither hid nor was hypocritical  about consumption of liquor by women. 

Nevertheless, when I decided to not consume it anymore, it was seen more as a family restriction as one of the reasons as all those who were trapped by my fake image of alcohol consumer were a little not convinced that it is an independent decision. 

As I started to mature more, I realised that there are many people who don't like the taste of it but still consume it only coz it leaves one intoxicated enough to make him/her feel RELIEVED... There are various reasons people give to consume alcohol and few of them are... 

1.Its fun to drink and let ourselves lose with friends for REAL FUN

2.Its great to indulge into  fantasizing sexual acts with your partner after some drinks to let go off mental blocks

3.In corporate meets, its important to make others believe that you are open minded and one among them who drinks, is well in control and an amazing decision maker. 

4.Alcohol is not a monopoly of men, women too have equal rights to have fun using this. 

5.Its a stress reliever as verbal nagging can create chaos in family thus alcohol is a better option... 

And many more..... 

The fact that people are using all sorts of justifying statements to support alcohol shows people's  incredible love and dependency and its power to have captured people's psyche. 

I rejected alcohol when I started considering myself weak enough to get victimized by a lifeless product which has zero health benefits and can have such a strong grip over people.. And most surprisingly it had gripped those learned and highly intellectual class even more than those on the roads and slums... The difference being the Intellectual class will have a high end brand and one on roadside will consume country made local ones...  

The reasons stated above are  both applicable to every individual irrespective of class and what amuses me the most is that these reasons  aren't  solutions to any of the issues on a permanent basis.. 

Let's consider the sexual pleasure after consuming alcohol... Well, even if great fantasy was fulfilled, how did it REALLY make  them happy at a deeper level??? A person should be in crazy love with their partner for the hot,  sizzling sexual experience and a true conviction that none of the two are judging the other in the act, its a pure expression of their love is what can give that fulfilling pleasure not alcohol.. That infact takes one into an unreal world to make people superficially convinced that they are having real pleasure.Sex,a true stress reliever, if can work wonders only after consuming intoxicated products is like fooling yourself that you love your partner. Two peoplw in love should be intoxicated enough by their chemistry that they should feel fabulous with one another...  It might sound bitter, but the fact remains that people aren't REAL anymore to experience REAL FUN.. I was wondering that I am so much myself with my loved ones and friends that I seldom feel the need to get high using substances as I am naturally intoxicated and may be that's one of the reasons I enjoy those meets thoroughly without any alcoholic influence... 

I am now a more solution oriented person as I realised that temporary escapism via these substances is like hating yourself.. The one in love wouldn't cheat on self... 

So, I feel Amazing, Awesome and Aphrodisiac without ALCOHOL... 

Try being true to yourself, what are you hiding or running away from, probably you ll too not need alcohol to feel high... 

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